I'm an affectionate person who loves holding hands, kisses and being close to my partner.. I do have a quirky side and a dry sense of humor (think Bob Newhart).. I'm really looking for someone who "gets me" and allows me to be myself.. I try to accept people for who they are and encourage them to be their best.. I want to know that my partner and I are better as a couple than we are apart.. I tend to be very trusting in a relationship and hope that, that is not taken for granted..I need to know that my partner is totally secure with herself and confident in who she is.. I tend to shy away from overly aggressive people who feel better by putting others down.. The bully mentality just doesn't work for me.. A lot of people tell me that they're inspired by the way I live my life and my ability to "give back".. I feel that we get out of life what we put into it..I have no difficulty expressing my thoughts and feelings.. In fact, when I am in a relationship, I want my mate to have a comfort in understanding where I stand mentally and emotionally and not waste her time trying to guess.. As you know sometimes the lil' hit & miss guessing game can lead to both parties feeling quite frustrated.. I'm a conversationalist, but also enjoy the peaceful silence of simply being in the presence of someone special. I'm interested in meeting a woman who knows how to have fun, is passionate about life, understands the art of dressing well, stays fit, is a good communicator and interested in having the relationship of a life time.